Welcome everyone! My name is Sammi and this is my blogging site. First i'd like to say thank you for stopping bye! Secondly, I'd like to give you folks a little background on myself and the intentions of this blog. I'm in my early twenties and a college student. I'm a Leo with a strong mind and sweet heart. I have a goal to inspire others, especially women to believe in themselves , no matter the journey they are seeking. Young as I may be, I have grown up in a world where society tells us how we "should" feel, look, eat, dress, and behave! What ever happen to originality? It shames me to see how much we as people try to be the same (once again especially women). I too am included in this. For a long time I was shamed and embarrassed of myself. Thinking of me in a bathing suit was more of a nightmare. I've forever been that person that could use to lose 15 to 20 pounds. I was in the "not fat but not skinny" category, or "chunky" group. Summer wasn't fun like it used to be! Actually it started to control my life. Growing up and still to this day I never had a problem making friends, or meeting people. I enjoy doing things, and I was always up for anything. Then the older I got I saw how everyone else was slimmer, always had the cute clothes, the hot guy, looked good even with out trying to. It put me down, and made me feel bad about myself. Even today I still struggle, but it is getting better.
We women have so much we do that sometimes we stop and forget about the great person we are. Women are pretty awesome! We suffer through YEARS of monthly hell for our children. Lets not forget the 9 months of stretching and growing we do for them. Oh, and we must not forget about the many long hours of LABOR we go through to bring them into this world! We make our house a home with a mother's touch, and wifely duties. We are best friends and a whole support team for our significant other. Some of us even work full time on top of all that! Lets face it we wear many hats! That right there deserves many rounds of applause. However, women are easily deterred from their good thoughts of themselves, we need reinforcement. Not the "babe you look hot" type of reinforcement, but most women want to be appreciated and hey, men lets face it, we like to know we turn you on!
The world we live in today makes being a woman very hard! We are up against women that have been "fake & baked" tanned, airbrushed, make up is applied by a professional, waxed,picked at, plucked, tucked, tweezed lifted, plumped and photo- shopped after that! WE STAND NO CHANCE! What men have learned to love isn't even real. We can't compete with that! Not when the average size for women is 12. Then when we try to compete we end up doing these crazy diets, taking all these diet pills that just make us hyper and jittery, or we "cleanse" which is really ironic because we are crapping our brains out the whole entire time. It rough being a woman.
Men make it even worse. They "want" us until they have had us. Have you heard the term "chew & screw" Well its the same thing here, but more accurately called " fuck & chuck". News flash, women don't want that! Men lack respect, and prove to us everyday what really matters to them, which is sad. Women deserve a man who is going to open doors, and try to win us over. Instead we get late night texts that say "hook up ? insert smiley face" Seriously, is that what romance has come to? no chivalry, no surprises, sometimes they don't even change out of their work clothes to go out to dinner. FYI guys, coco-pebbles in a bowl is not considered breakfast in bed! When men are constantly googly - eyed over every other girl, they make us feel bad. We are not tissues. You can't use us then throw us away! We are real people with real feelings.
Women are very wonderful and caring creatures. After all we are programmed to be moms. Each one of us has something special to offer. We are unique, and that is what makes us special! We all have purpose, and will all have a difference to make. Be proud of the person you are! Thanks for reading and welcome to my blog! With that I will leave you with 2 quotes by two inspiring women.
We women have so much we do that sometimes we stop and forget about the great person we are. Women are pretty awesome! We suffer through YEARS of monthly hell for our children. Lets not forget the 9 months of stretching and growing we do for them. Oh, and we must not forget about the many long hours of LABOR we go through to bring them into this world! We make our house a home with a mother's touch, and wifely duties. We are best friends and a whole support team for our significant other. Some of us even work full time on top of all that! Lets face it we wear many hats! That right there deserves many rounds of applause. However, women are easily deterred from their good thoughts of themselves, we need reinforcement. Not the "babe you look hot" type of reinforcement, but most women want to be appreciated and hey, men lets face it, we like to know we turn you on!
The world we live in today makes being a woman very hard! We are up against women that have been "fake & baked" tanned, airbrushed, make up is applied by a professional, waxed,picked at, plucked, tucked, tweezed lifted, plumped and photo- shopped after that! WE STAND NO CHANCE! What men have learned to love isn't even real. We can't compete with that! Not when the average size for women is 12. Then when we try to compete we end up doing these crazy diets, taking all these diet pills that just make us hyper and jittery, or we "cleanse" which is really ironic because we are crapping our brains out the whole entire time. It rough being a woman.
Men make it even worse. They "want" us until they have had us. Have you heard the term "chew & screw" Well its the same thing here, but more accurately called " fuck & chuck". News flash, women don't want that! Men lack respect, and prove to us everyday what really matters to them, which is sad. Women deserve a man who is going to open doors, and try to win us over. Instead we get late night texts that say "hook up ? insert smiley face" Seriously, is that what romance has come to? no chivalry, no surprises, sometimes they don't even change out of their work clothes to go out to dinner. FYI guys, coco-pebbles in a bowl is not considered breakfast in bed! When men are constantly googly - eyed over every other girl, they make us feel bad. We are not tissues. You can't use us then throw us away! We are real people with real feelings.
Women are very wonderful and caring creatures. After all we are programmed to be moms. Each one of us has something special to offer. We are unique, and that is what makes us special! We all have purpose, and will all have a difference to make. Be proud of the person you are! Thanks for reading and welcome to my blog! With that I will leave you with 2 quotes by two inspiring women.
Cause ever since the beginning to keep the world spinning, it takes all kinds of kinds" - Miranda Lambert
Imperfection is beauty, madness is genus and it is better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." - Marilyn Monroe
Until next time
xoxo Sammi
xoxo Sammi